Trending

This week has been uneventful (so far). I'm not sure whether that's a good or bad thing. So I thought I would share some things that are trending this week.

+The death of former New Orleans Saint Will Smith has been on my mind. What a crazy story/tragedy. Smith, who was just 34, was shot eight times, seven in the back. His beautiful wife was also shot twice, but survived. It makes you think twice about road rage. I covered a similar story when I was in Phoenix. A woman rear-ended an exchange student...then got out of the car and shot and killed her. Pathetic. You can see the story here

+Switching gears - I had a minor, minor cameo on John Oliver's show. In case you didn't know, Alabama's governor is in the midst of a gross sex scandal. Check me out at 18 seconds grabbing a mic off the table. Basically #famous

+Disturbing video from Montgomery, Alabama - now going viral. A man, angry that a black woman jumped in front of him in the ATM line (because he was sitting in his car) spews a whole lotta racist hatred toward her. The bank is aware and may be closing his account. Check out the video here

+Did you know you can buy a gold donut? It'll cost you $100 a pop. But look how pretty

Also, new posts under the 'People' and 'OOTD' section of the blog. Check them out.

TV

I've been "out the biz" for a few months now. The break I am taking has been so good for me mentally. News is VERY demanding. And in my biased opinion, being a reporter is the hardest job in the newsroom.

People are always asking me why I left TV. First, let me say - I don't think it is a permanent leave. There are many reasons for the break - but my reasons may not resonate with those who have never worked in the industry.

I love reporting (most days). I love meeting new people. I love that it's not a desk job. I love that I can go somewhere new every single day. I love having connections in high places. Those are all very cool aspects of the job. But for all the pros - there are many cons. Most days, it's not glamorous. You're going to horrible crime scenes, working outside in the cold/heat, working every holiday, stressed beyond belief everyday as you try to meet deadline after deadline. Say goodbye to lunch breaks and in most cases, a healthy social life. It's truly a job where you need a STIFF drink after you clock out for the day.

A young meteorologist, 27-years-old, recently took his life. I'm not sure if we'll ever know WHY he did it. But a piece of his life story is going viral.

I encourage you to read it HERE

Vision Boards

Remember a few years back when everyone and their mother was reading โ€˜the secretโ€™ and being all weird and cult-like? Me too. Countless people had the book and just KNEW their lives would be forever changed. Hey I'm not judging. Actually yes I am. Even my brother read the book. I actually had someone I had met just once, mail me the DVD. I haven't yet watched..

All this to say - regardless of whether 'the secret' is or isn't legit, I think the notion of a vision board is. So I decided to make one. Just in my head. Won't be cutting cars out of magazines and taping them to my fridge or anything.

Over the past few years, I think my 'vision' has completely changed. Because I have changed careers temporarily, some people have asked what my long-term goal is. Right now, I can't say I have an answer to that. A few years ago, I wanted to have a long, successful broadcasting career. I'm still not opposed to the idea. What I am opposed to, however, is sacrificing everything else to get it. So here's what I do know I want, at least right now.

1. I would LOVE for this blog to grow and to reach more people. And although I am highlighting certain fashions here & on my instagram, believe me, I know stuff doesn't matter. Stuff won't ever make me happy. Well, some of it does temporarily but I know that it's not the secret to happiness. If all my clothes and shoes burned in a fire, that would really suck. But I would be okay. I want people to want to know more about God because of this blog. That's what's most important. (PS - if you ever have any questions, please email me!)

2. I want to start a non-profit. This is something I've been researching lately. It's a BIG dream that has to start with baby steps. But I would like to do good and be able to do something for others long-term.

3. I would like to buy my own place. Preferably a condo downtown. I would say this is more short term.

4. I want to go to Germany, Nigeria, Rwanda. All for different reasons - mostly the historical significance. And Paris - for the architecture and prettiness.

5. I would like to pay off my student debt. It's annoying.

So that's all I got right now. That list in itself is pretty complex. What is on your vision board?

PS - I have a great devotional today over on that tab. Go check it out. As always, I like and appreciate your thoughts. I love to be challenged on my own thoughts and see things from the perspective of others. So I won't get offended if you disagree with me. Maybe I will. But I'll get over it and think about what you say.